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hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/serving-one-another-marriage/ relbookmark titleServing One Another in Marriage>Serving One Another in Marriage/a>/h2>div classentry-meta>span classdate>December 17, 2020/span>span classcomments>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/serving-one-another-marriage/#respond>No comments/a>/span>/div>div classentry-content>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Serving-One-Another-in-Marriage.png>img loadinglazy classaligncenter size-full wp-image-15685 srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Serving-One-Another-in-Marriage.png alt width900 height600 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Serving-One-Another-in-Marriage.png 900w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Serving-One-Another-in-Marriage-300x200.png 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Serving-One-Another-in-Marriage-768x512.png 768w sizes(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px />/a>/p>p>This year we swapped our 6 feet Christmas 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Even though it was so simple and plain, I was blown away by Alexis’s ingenuity when he suggested adding back-lit lights. It made a world of difference and transformed our 2D Christmas tree to look like a 3D version./p>p>Putting up the Christmas deco every year is Alexis’s way of showing his love for me beacuse he always feels it’s such a hassle to put them up and take them down./p>p>And yet he does it./p>p>Year after year without fail./p>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IMG_0999-rotated.jpg>img loadinglazy classaligncenter size-full wp-image-15684 srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IMG_0999-rotated.jpg alt width1512 height2016 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IMG_0999-rotated.jpg 1512w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IMG_0999-225x300.jpg 225w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IMG_0999-768x1024.jpg 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IMG_0999-1152x1536.jpg 1152w sizes(max-width: 1512px) 100vw, 1512px />/a>/p>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970.jpg>img loadinglazy classaligncenter size-full wp-image-15680 srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970.jpg alt width1280 height1280 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970.jpg 1280w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970-300x300.jpg 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970-150x150.jpg 150w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970-768x768.jpg 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970-144x144.jpg 144w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970-136x136.jpg 136w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/AD8CC6AF-42BB-4BEB-A5D2-8B0E8CF1E970-100x100.jpg 100w sizes(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px />/a>/p>blockquote>p> /p>p>span stylecolor: #000080;>Love is not always just about doing the things we enjoy but doing the things that delight our partner too./span>/p>/blockquote>p>Likewise, I’ve been channeling my inner Marie Kondo to keep the home more organised the way he likes instead of insisting that we can live in organised chaos. This has been an uphill task for me and in our latest attempt to declutter the study room, I ended up in tears as it was just so overwhelming trying to throw things I used to cherish and love./p>p>But love is sacrificial. Even though we’re not out to change or fix each other to be more like the other, taking these small steps forward to a compromise shows that we respect our partners and are willing to do things outside our comfort zones. Marriage is a dance of we, rather than me where we serve each other with Christ-like love./p>h2>span stylecolor: #000080;>strong>Serving one another with love and honor/strong>/span>/h2>p>The best marriage is where both are committed to serving each other and the worst marriage is two selfish people who only want what’s best for themselves. We serve because Jesus led by example and washed his disciples’ feet. Jesus didn’t come to be served but he came to serve us and lay down his life for us. A Godly marriage seeking to honor and glorify Christ must have this kind of attitude./p>p>So today, ask yourself these questions:/p>ol>li>How can I delight my partner?/li>li>How can I serve my spouse?/li>/ol>p>Serve our spouse because we love them, not to receive anything in return. And don’t forget to show appreciation at every opportunity./p>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IMG_0938.jpg>img loadinglazy classaligncenter wp-image-15683 srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IMG_0938.jpg alt width349 height628 />/a>/p>div classaddtoany_share_save_container addtoany_content addtoany_content_bottom>div classaddtoany_header>b>Like/Share this:/b>/div>div classa2a_kit a2a_kit_size_20 addtoany_list data-a2a-urlhttps://ajugglingmom.com/serving-one-another-marriage/ data-a2a-titleServing One Another in Marriage>a classa2a_button_facebook_like addtoany_special_service data-layoutbutton data-hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/serving-one-another-marriage/>/a>a classa2a_button_facebook a2a_counter hrefhttps://www.addtoany.com/add_to/facebook?linkurlhttps%3A%2F%2Fajugglingmom.com%2Fserving-one-another-marriage%2F&linknameServing%20One%20Another%20in%20Marriage titleFacebook relnofollow noopener target_blank>/a>a classa2a_button_twitter hrefhttps://www.addtoany.com/add_to/twitter?linkurlhttps%3A%2F%2Fajugglingmom.com%2Fserving-one-another-marriage%2F&linknameServing%20One%20Another%20in%20Marriage titleTwitter relnofollow noopener target_blank>/a>a classa2a_dd addtoany_share_save addtoany_share hrefhttps://www.addtoany.com/share>/a>/div>/div> /div>/div>div classdeco-line>/div>div idpost-15666 classlist-post-item post-15666 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-parenting category-primary-school tag-kids tag-motherhood-2 tag-positive-parenting tag-primary-school>h2>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/supporting-our-children-even-when-were-disappointed/ relbookmark titleSupporting our children even when we’re disappointed>Supporting our children even when we’re disappointed/a>/h2>div classentry-meta>span classdate>November 6, 2020/span>span classcomments>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/supporting-our-children-even-when-were-disappointed/#respond>No comments/a>/span>/div>div classentry-content>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Suporting-our-children.png>img loadinglazy classsize-full wp-image-15667 alignnone srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Suporting-our-children.png alt width1143 height656 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Suporting-our-children.png 1143w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Suporting-our-children-300x172.png 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Suporting-our-children-1024x588.png 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Suporting-our-children-768x441.png 768w sizes(max-width: 1143px) 100vw, 1143px />/a>/p>p>With the year-end exams done and dusted, many parents are now waiting to see how our children will fare in their exams results. I’m surprised that Sophie’s exams concluded a lot earlier than most schools and she came back with her results this week./p>p>Now I’ve been mentally prepared by parents with older children to anticipate a drop in grades from Primary 4 to Primary 5 as the syllabus gets tougher. But nothing could have prepared her for the major disruption in her studies when COVID-19 came into the picture. Students were thrown into HBL where they had to learn to swim on their own./p>p>Even though as parents we tried our best to coach her, we found the curriculum getting more challenging and demanding. In fact, I’m often stumped when she comes to me for help in her Maths and I have to send her to Daddy instead./p>p>With all this information at the back of my mind and a better understanding of the demands and disruptions she faced, I reminded myself that Sophie’s results are what she’s worked hard which cannot be discounted./p>h2>span stylecolor: #000080;>strong>Dealing with our disappointment/strong>/span>/h2>p>Even then, I found myself letting out sighs of disappointment and shaking my head when I flipped her through her exam scripts and saw careless mistakes which could have been avoided./p>p>We know that our body language speaks louder than our words hence it wasn’t hard for Sophie to pick up on my displeasure. I couldn’t help myself and questioned if she checked her work thoroughly with a hint of vexation./p>p>span stylecolor: #000080;>“You forgot the concepts you revised just before the exams?”/span>/p>p>span stylecolor: #000080;>“I thought you tried doing these kinds of questions before?”/span>/p>p>Then came thoughts of “em>Maybe she needs tuition this school holidays. Were we too relaxed for the year-end exams?/em>”/p>p>I signed her exam papers grudgingly and asked myself why I felt so let down by her performance./p>p>Once again, I’m reminded that Sophie’s exams should never be about me in the first place./p>p> /p>blockquote>p styletext-align: center;>span stylecolor: #800080;>strong>em>Our children’s exam is more about them and not us./em>/strong>/span>/p>p> /p>/blockquote>p>I recognised how my heart is so prone to fall back on the world’s standards for our children, measuring my child’s ability by her grades. But we must always remember that they are worth so much more than their achievements and to affirm them for every small victory./p>h2>span stylecolor: #000080;>strong>Taking accountability for their results/strong>/span>/h2>p>When it comes to academics, many parents desire for our children to be self-motivated. If we acknowledge that this trait has to come from within them, then we should allow our children to be accountable for their exam results./p>p>Before telling them how we feel, ask them how they feel about their grades. Are they satisfied with their achievement? What areas did they fare well in and which areas can they improve?/p>p>By allowing them to process their thoughts and feelings, we are getting to reflect and find solutions for themselves./p>p>What our children do not need is comparing them, shaming them or forcing them./p>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2.png>img loadinglazy classaligncenter wp-image-15669 srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2.png alt width500 height501 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2.png 1080w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2-300x300.png 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2-1024x1024.png 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2-150x150.png 150w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2-768x768.png 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2-144x144.png 144w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2-136x136.png 136w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/2-100x100.png 100w sizes(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px />/a>/p>p>span stylecolor: #993366;>strong>READ:/strong> a stylecolor: #993366; hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/when-expectations-turn-into-exasperation/>When expectations turn into exasperation/a>/span>/p>h2>span stylecolor: #000080;>strong>Supporting our children even when we’re disappointed/strong>/span>/h2>p>3 constructive responses we can give to our children to build their resilience are:/p>ol>li>Recognise their progress/li>li>Validate their feelings/li>li>Affirm their efforts/li>/ol>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3.png>img loadinglazy classaligncenter wp-image-15670 srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3.png alt width500 height500 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3.png 1080w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3-300x300.png 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3-1024x1024.png 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3-150x150.png 150w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3-768x768.png 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3-144x144.png 144w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3-136x136.png 136w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/3-100x100.png 100w sizes(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px />/a>/p>p>It’s undeniable that Singapore’s education is like a pressure cooker. As parents, let’s not give our children additional stress of trying to meet our expectations./p>p>Over the years, God is reminding me to open my eyes to pay more careful attention to every effort that Sophie put in and to continually affirm and speak life to her./p>p>As we prayed that night, I listed all the ways she has matured in her learning journey through the years./p>p>From learning to take responsibility for her studies, planning her revision timetable to being more independent to find finding answers from her teachers or friends. We praised God that through this stressful period even hen her eczema flared up, her recovery was swift and less painful./p>p>And most importantly, Sophie learned to turn to God when she was feeling anxious before her exams and she felt the assuring comfort of God’s presence as she took her exams./p>blockquote>p styletext-align: center;>span stylecolor: #800080;>Acknowledging every small win. Counting each victory./span>/p>/blockquote>h2>strong>span stylecolor: #000080;>Guardians of our child’s mental well-being/span>/strong>/h2>p>There’s been so much spotlight on the growing need to take care of our children’s mental health. As parents, we are the primary guardians for their mental well-being. In spite of our disappointments, let’s not place labels on our children based on their abilities and guide them to be forward-thinking with a growth mindset./p>p>This article, “strong>a hrefhttps://www.schoolbag.edu.sg/story/the-upside-of-being-average>The upside of being average/a>“/strong> as recently shared by friends and this quote is so true. “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”/p>p>With God’s help and grace, I want to keep at my goal of being a supportive parent, always reminding Sophie that at the end of the day, it’s attitude over aptitude. Her eternal value and identity as a precious child of God as well as our beloved daughter will never change and look forward to seeing the promises of God lived out in her life./p>p> /p>p> /p>p>Enjoyed reading this post? Do like a hrefhttps://www.facebook.com/AJugglingMom/>my Facebook page/a> to get more parenting posts updates. 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Like many others, I don’t know what the year-end has in store for us but one thing is for sure – the end-of-year examinations./p>p>While MOE may have a hrefhttps://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/exams-assessments-scrap-mid-year-primary-secondary-schools-10767370>scrapped the mid-year exams/a> for Primary 5 in an effort to move away from an overemphasis of academic results, there’s no escaping the year-end examinations that loom closer with each passing day. Yesterday, the Primary 6s celebrated the end of their most important exam in life the PSLE, and next year it will be Sophie’s turn./p>p>I think I’m a far cry from being an a hrefhttps://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/commentary/tiger-mum-dad-parenting-singapore-exams-discipline-tests-13178870>Asian Tiger Mum/a> who pushes her child to excel academically at all cost. Yet, like all parents, I want my child to do nothing less than her best./p>h2>strong>span stylecolor: #000080;>High Stakes Exams. High Stress. /span>/strong>/h2>p>After all, the stakes for the year-end exams are high. 65% of the academic year’s grades to be precise./p>p>So yes, I blow my top if I see sloppy work, careless mistakes, laziness and a couldn’t care less attitude from my girl. I would be more forgiving though if she has difficulty grasping a Science concept or when she’s stumped by a Maths problem sum (both subjects were my nemeses back in school) and send her off to Daddy for solutions./p>p>However lately, we find our patience increasingly wearing thin. I would fume when I see unanswered questions in past year papers and questioned if she was even trying hard enough. My husband who was in charge of coaching her Maths and Science also blew his top./p>blockquote>p>span stylecolor: #000080;>“You should know all these by now.”/span>/p>p>span stylecolor: #000080;>“How can you still make such mistakes?”/span>/p>/blockquote>p>In exasperation, I shot the question if she was even trying hard enough. She snapped./p>p>“em>You can’t see my efforts but what makes you think I’m not trying my best?/em>” Sophie fired back in frustration./p>p>Regrettably, in hindsight, we should have known better than to assume the worst of her. Months of HBL was hard on her when learning took a drastically different form. It made us feel like lousy parents when hurtful words were exchanged. For not empathising with the stress she was facing and walking in her shoes./p>h2>span stylecolor: #000080;>strong>Be anxious about nothing/strong>/span>/h2>p>Upon deeper reflection, I realised that I was transferring my anxieties onto Sophie. My expectations for her to do well turned to exasperation. Both for my daughter and myself./p>blockquote>p>span stylecolor: #000080;>It was hard to admit that even as a Christian mum who had good intentions for my child, I was caught under the wave of worldly pressure to measure my child by her achievements and grades./span>/p>/blockquote>p>As I looked deep within myself, a part of us pushing her so hard to excel is so that we as parents can look good too. But while my daughter is my pride, she’s not my trophy child to boast about./p>p> /p>p>span stylecolor: #993366;>strong>READ:/strong> a stylecolor: #993366; hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/the-power-of-life-giving-words/>The power of life-giving words /a>/span>/p>div idattachment_15659 stylewidth: 610px classwp-caption aligncenter>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7441.jpg>img aria-describedbycaption-attachment-15659 loadinglazy classwp-image-15659 size-large srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7441-1024x768.jpg altTaking a study break width600 height450 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7441-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7441-300x225.jpg 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7441-768x576.jpg 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7441-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7441.jpg 2016w sizes(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px />/a>p idcaption-attachment-15659 classwp-caption-text>Taking a study break/p>/div>p>I’m not saying that grades do not matter in her academic pursuits butstrong> they cannot define her/strong>. And I would never want her to think that we love her any less if she came back with less than stellar results. More importantly, our love for her should and must always be unconditional because we are loved unconditionally by our Heavenly Father./p>p>Does that mean we should not hold any expectations for our children at all? There is a saying, “没有期望就没有失望”. Loosely translated as “without expectations, there will be no disappointment”./p>p>But I beg to differ. After all, we as children of God are to do our best in strong>everything/strong> we do./p>blockquote>p>span stylecolor: #000080;>“em>Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord/em>.” /span>/p>/blockquote>p>Quoting Colossians 3:23, “em>Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord/em>”. That applies to our children, who are charged to study wholeheartedly for God’s glory. That means having a good attitude when they study, planning their time well, and growing their resilience to bounce back from setbacks. Not forgetting to take care of their physical health and emotional well-being./p>h2>span stylecolor: #000080;>strong>Recalibrating our expectations/strong>/span>/h2>p>As we enter the height of exams fever, it’s inevitable for parents to be stressed. But we can take a step back to see the big picture./p>p>I felt the nudge of the Lord asking me, “Where is your treasure, where is your heart in all these?”/p>blockquote>p>span stylecolor: #000080;>If we are truly convicted that our children are not measured by their grades, our words and actions must match our intentions. /span>/p>/blockquote>p>Do I only praise when she does well but withhold affirmation if she failed to match up to my expectations?/p>div idattachment_15658 stylewidth: 446px classwp-caption aligncenter>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7438.jpg>img aria-describedbycaption-attachment-15658 loadinglazy classwp-image-15658 srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7438-768x1024.jpg altMy Study Buddy Resource from Our Daily Bread width436 height579 />/a>p idcaption-attachment-15658 classwp-caption-text>My Study Buddy Resource from Our Daily Bread/p>/div>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7430.jpg>img loadinglazy classaligncenter wp-image-15657 size-large srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7430-1024x767.jpg alt width600 height449 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7430-1024x767.jpg 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7430-300x225.jpg 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7430-768x575.jpg 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7430-1536x1151.jpg 1536w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/IMG_7430.jpg 1734w sizes(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px />/a>/p>p>span stylecolor: #993366;>strong>READ:/strong> a stylecolor: #993366; hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/failing-to-be-a-patient-mum-again/>Failing to be a patient mum, again/a>/span>/p>p>As I learn to temper my expectations and ask God to put my pride aside to do what’s best for Sophie, the tense learning atmosphere began to slowly dissipate./p>p>I am more mindful of what I say and use kinder words to support my child’s learning. To encourage her by speaking words of affirmation to show that, “Yes, Mummy believes in you!” As a result, I see her putting in more effort because she’s assured she is simply loved for who she is and not what’s going to be in her report book./p>p>Parents, let’s redirect our exasperations into encouragement instead. Speak positively over our children. Never lose sight that they are our precious gift from our Heavenly Father and trust God with their future./p>h2>strong>span stylecolor: #000080;>Resources for Christian parents/span>/strong>/h2>p>These parenting resources have been so useful in helping me to recalibrate my expectations for my child. I pray that you will be encouraged as a parent who is supporting your child for their exams./p>ul>li>a hrefhttps://www.facebook.com/focusonthefamily.sg/videos/248538293155166/>How To Set Our Kids Up For Holistic Success/a> – Interview with Michelle Choy, co-founder and director of The Little Executive and mum of 6. Bryan Tan CEO of Dads for Life and Centre for Fathering, and dad to 4 kids/li>li>a hrefhttps://biblical-parenting.org/articles/how-i-learnt-to-help-my-son-through-exam-stress/>How I Learnt to Help My Son Through Exam Stress/a>/li>/ul>ul>li>a hrefhttps://campaigns.family.org.sg/race-to-praise/>Race to Praise/a> – Resources to develop stronger parent-child relationships and instill confidence in children/li>/ul>p> /p>div classaddtoany_share_save_container addtoany_content addtoany_content_bottom>div classaddtoany_header>b>Like/Share this:/b>/div>div classa2a_kit a2a_kit_size_20 addtoany_list data-a2a-urlhttps://ajugglingmom.com/when-expectations-turn-into-exasperation/ data-a2a-titleWhen expectations turn into exasperation>a classa2a_button_facebook_like addtoany_special_service data-layoutbutton data-hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/when-expectations-turn-into-exasperation/>/a>a classa2a_button_facebook a2a_counter hrefhttps://www.addtoany.com/add_to/facebook?linkurlhttps%3A%2F%2Fajugglingmom.com%2Fwhen-expectations-turn-into-exasperation%2F&linknameWhen%20expectations%20turn%20into%20exasperation titleFacebook relnofollow noopener target_blank>/a>a classa2a_button_twitter hrefhttps://www.addtoany.com/add_to/twitter?linkurlhttps%3A%2F%2Fajugglingmom.com%2Fwhen-expectations-turn-into-exasperation%2F&linknameWhen%20expectations%20turn%20into%20exasperation titleTwitter relnofollow noopener target_blank>/a>a classa2a_dd addtoany_share_save addtoany_share hrefhttps://www.addtoany.com/share>/a>/div>/div> /div>/div>div classdeco-line>/div>div idpost-15644 classlist-post-item post-15644 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-faith category-marriage-relationships tag-christian-marriage tag-marriage tag-relationship>h2>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/marriage-better-not-bitter/ relbookmark titleForgiveness makes our marriage better, not bitter>Forgiveness makes our marriage better, not bitter/a>/h2>div classentry-meta>span classdate>September 25, 2020/span>span classcomments>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/marriage-better-not-bitter/#respond>No comments/a>/span>/div>div classentry-content>div>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Forgiveness-makes-our-marriage-better-not-bitter..png>img loadinglazy classsize-large wp-image-15645 aligncenter srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Forgiveness-makes-our-marriage-better-not-bitter.-1024x576.png alt width600 height338 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Forgiveness-makes-our-marriage-better-not-bitter.-1024x576.png 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Forgiveness-makes-our-marriage-better-not-bitter.-300x169.png 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Forgiveness-makes-our-marriage-better-not-bitter.-768x432.png 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Forgiveness-makes-our-marriage-better-not-bitter.-1536x864.png 1536w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Forgiveness-makes-our-marriage-better-not-bitter.-2048x1152.png 2048w sizes(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px />/a>/div>div>/div>p>Forgiving someone is difficult but humbling yourself to seek forgiveness? That’s a tall order./p>p>When we are confronted with our mistakes, our natural instinct kicks in to flight or fight. We flight when we retreat in silence or build walls to guard our emotions from further pain. Perhaps we don’t fight in the physical sense where blows are exchanged, instead we fight to seek justice, to retaliate, to get even./p>p>Yes, even getting back at our spouse. We get even with character assassination by pointing out their flaws, justifying that they too have their imperfections./p>p>We get triggered. We get angry. We get hurt./p>p>If not careful, our defensiveness can lead us down a slippery slope where bitterness take roots in our heart./p>h2>Love keeps no records of wrong/h2>p>But love is not selfish. Neither is self-seeking, protecting our self interest and dignity. Instead in 1 Corinthians 13:5, it say that love is “em>not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs./em>”/p>p>You know what happens when we keep records of wrongs? The past gets brought up, again and again like a broken record because you’ve not let go of the hurt inflicted on you./p>blockquote>p>span stylecolor: #0000ff;>Love is em>not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs./em>/span>/p>/blockquote>div>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Get-even-scaled.jpg>img loadinglazy classalignnone wp-image-15646 size-large srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Get-even-1024x622.jpg alt width600 height364 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Get-even-1024x622.jpg 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Get-even-300x182.jpg 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Get-even-768x466.jpg 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Get-even-1536x933.jpg 1536w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Get-even-2048x1243.jpg 2048w sizes(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px />/a>/div>p>Without even realising it, you find yourself hardening your heart towards your partner and can’t stand everything they do. Instead, ask God to soften your heart to prepare you to accept the rebuke in love./p>p>If you’re in the wrong, apologise./p>h2>Stop keeping scores/h2>p>It is never easy to make a apology especially when we feel indignant. Our sinful nature keeps whispering to us that we cannot back down and lose./p>p>This was what played out in my head as I was fuming and asking God why can’t my husband see the plank in his eye when he pointed out my shortcomings. But the Holy Spirit told me that if I humble myself and not get blinded by my anger, I’ll be able to see my husband’s perspective and agree that there is truth in what he said./p>p>As I prayed for God to help me walk in obedience and not keep scores, He told me to take caution that I don’t allow my heart to get hardened. Harden towards my husband or hardened toward God because I wouldn’t be sensitive to hear to hear His voice and prompting./p>h2>Get better, not bitter/h2>p>Eventually, I had to eat humble pie and laid aside my pride to ask for forgiveness. I choose to be better, not bitter as I’m not allowing the devil to have a foothold in my marriage by sowing seeds of discord and disunity between me and my husband./p>p>Post reconciliation, we made a pact to be more thoughtful to each other’s feelings when we speak the truth in love. That he’ll be kinder with his tone and I’ll be less sensitive when I receive his message. Learning to communicate will be a lifelong journey but it can only get better when we learn to listen with our hearts and not listen to defend ourselves./p>p>Maybe you have been hurt or misunderstood and bitterness has come between you and your spouse. Identify the issues, the conflict triggers and work at resolving them one by one. Uproot bitterness in your relationship and work towards reconciliation as you draw close to God for his grace in your marriage./p>p>Remember forgiveness makes our marriage better, not bitter./p>div>/div>div>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter.png>img loadinglazy classwp-image-15647 aligncenter srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter-1024x1024.png alt width417 height417 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter-1024x1024.png 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter-300x300.png 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter-150x150.png 150w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter-768x768.png 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter-144x144.png 144w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter-136x136.png 136w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter-100x100.png 100w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Better-not-bitter.png 1080w sizes(max-width: 417px) 100vw, 417px />/a>/div>div>/div>div>p>If you enjoyed this post, you may like these posts where I share my heart about Marriage and Relationship./p>ul>li>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/overcoming-differences-in-our-marriage/>Overcoming differences in our marriage/a>/li>li>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/day-husband-asked-forgiveness/>The day my husband asked for my forgiveness/a>/li>li>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/why-its-okay-to-go-to-bed-angry/>Why it’s okay to go to bed angry/a>/li>li>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/why-im-happily-married-to-my-boring-husband/>Why I’m happily married to my boring husband/a>/li>/ul>p>Enjoyed reading this post? 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To be sure your child is capable of making good decisions as they enter adolescence – a stage that is wonderful, challenging and confusing all at the same time./p>p>The teenage phase where we ought to slowly loosen our grip, so our youths can take to the skies like a kite without us holding them back./p>blockquote>p styletext-align: center;>span stylecolor: #0000ff;>em>When our kids are young, instruct them. /em>em>As they get older, inspire them/em>/span>/p>/blockquote>p>I found myself in this place of tension when Sophie turned 11 years old this month. To me, she’ll always be my baby even though she protests to that endearing term because it embarrasses her. Yet, it’s undeniable that she’s evolving to be her own person with each passing birthday./p>p>While there may be a thousand and one things I worry about my daughter, from friendships, academics, untold dangers online and the list goes on, I remind myself to trust she’ll turn out good and fine as she slowly develops independence./p>p>A strong foundation where good seeds of character and faith were sown to root her in good values. I look back at those many life lessons and know that not one of them will be in vain./p>ul>li>From the time I taught her to dust off the dirt and stand on her feet when she fell at the playground./li>li>The time when she was bullied in Primary 1 and learnt that not everyone will be kind with their words./li>li>The time when I trusted her with a mobile phone and taught her the importance of responsible phone usage and consequences if she breaks our trust./li>/ul>p>Navigating changes at different stages of our children’s life require new approaches. When our children are younger, they need clear and direct instructions. As they become a teenager, they need us to inspire them./p>h2>strong>Raising teens to be independent /strong>/h2>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Sophie-and-mummy-Swing-1.jpg>img loadinglazy classsize-large wp-image-15637 aligncenter srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Sophie-and-mummy-Swing-1-1024x682.jpg alt width600 height400 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Sophie-and-mummy-Swing-1-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Sophie-and-mummy-Swing-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Sophie-and-mummy-Swing-1-768x511.jpg 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Sophie-and-mummy-Swing-1.jpg 1512w sizes(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px />/a>/p>p>Beyond teaching our children life lessons, as parents, our role according to Proverbs 22:6 is to “Train up a child in the way he should go; and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”/p>p>I often tell Sophie that independence is a mark of maturity. That while she’s taking one step away from us towards independence, she’s taking a step closer to God, as she learns to depend on Him./p>p>But having a rock solid faith in God for our children doesn’t happen overnight. In fact, it doesn’t happen just because they tag along for church and go to Sunday School. But it happens when parents are intentional in sowing seeds of faith, and nurturing our children in God’s Word./p>blockquote>p styletext-align: center;>span stylecolor: #0000ff;>Raising teens to be independent from parents but dependent on God/span>/p>/blockquote>p>Only when our teens are rooted in God’s Word, can they internalise the promises of God personally and look to Him knowing “my help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth (Psalm 121:1)./p>p>Our charge from God is to “bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord” and this cannot be outsourced to anyone else./p>h2>strong>Make God’s Word a priority for your teen/strong>/h2>blockquote>p>em>“How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word. I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from your commands. I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.” Psalms 119: 9-11/em>/p>/blockquote>p>Build up your child’s faith day by day. To live out the truth, they first need to know the truth./p>p>We’ve been using this series of devotions from a hrefhttps://biblical-parenting.org/resources/devotionals/give-us-this-day-4/>Our Daily Bread/a> which are written specially for children for our family devotions. The stories are relatable and challenges kids to make God’s Word applicable in their lives with reflection points and actionable ideas. You can get a copy by clicking on the link above./p>p>a hrefhttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Give-us-this-Day.jpg>img loadinglazy classsize-large wp-image-15635 aligncenter srchttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Give-us-this-Day-1024x682.jpg alt width600 height400 srcsethttps://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Give-us-this-Day-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Give-us-this-Day-300x200.jpg 300w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Give-us-this-Day-768x512.jpg 768w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Give-us-this-Day-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https://ajugglingmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Give-us-this-Day.jpg 1925w sizes(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px />/a>/p>p>For parents using the Bible app, there is also a Kids Bible Experience inside the YouVersion App. Sophie enjoys the video segment which makes her daily devotions more engaging. I like that there are practical insight on how to apply God’s Word in her life./p>p>Through discovering God’s Word, I believe Sophie will learns she’s never alone even as she grows in independence from us because God is for her and is always with her./p>p>So parents, don’t be anxious when your child slowly gains their independence. Celebrate their next milestone. 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